What our life is about besides basic needs like eating and sleeping, is people, communicating with people, fólk. To be around and communicate with people, is the most problematic and confusing challenge that we face in life. But some people seem to be good at it and others not, and why is that? I am terrible at it in some circumstances, i´m probably what is called a introvert, even though i don’t like labeling myself, cause often i feel i´m one thing and sometimes i am the opposite. They say that introvert individuals are more sensitive, what is called sensory perception sensitivity (SPS) that can manifest itself as the tendency to be inhibited, or even neuroticism. These individuals show greater brain activations in visual attention areas of the brain, when making judgements of subtle changes in seances. They take longer to make decisions, are more conscientious, need more time to themselves in order to reflect, and are more easily bored with small talk, research suggests. In regarding to myself i can completely agree on these words, even in the supermarket i often have troubles choosing, should i buy apples or oranges? when i am asked a question i need time to reflect the question, especially when i am communicating in a group i often don’t say anything, cause the moment has past when i have something to say about what is being talked about. And i really don’t like small talk, if i have to i can take part in it feeling silly, some times uncomfortable. But i do rather avoid it. Now when i am getting older i am more aware of what is happening when i am in these circumstances, but still i have the same troubles. This affects me and stops me most when i have to perform a lecture and talk to group of peoples, that´s when i feel like an complete fool. Imperfect beauty fool.